Allowance

April 5, 2019

 

Allowance

  This idea of allowance is up in my life right now, big time!  It’s comes and goes and each time I can dive in a bit deeper, clear more energy around it, and update my choices and explore more possibilities. So this is what I’m excited about and have to share with you this month.  If you’ve heard it all before, that’s fantastic and perfect, because it’s always hitting on a new level.  We are constantly changing and growing, so who you are today will be different that who you were yesterday.  Love this!  So come back and read this again and again to see what you get out of it each time. Hit this idea with an open mind, open heart, and see what’s possible for you. And, come back and read this again and again to see how each time you get something different out of it. Allowance vs. Acceptance Acceptance is tolerating someone else’s behavior.  There is still a judgment on the behavior when we accept it.  We go, oh my I can’t believe they said that, but then might choose to accept that behavior. Allowance is different. Allowance is becoming neutral to the behaviors.  The behavior, the situation, the verbiage doesn’t provoke a judgement or trigger for you.  We go, that’s an interesting point of view, or huh, that’s happening right now.  The response is monotone, neutral, and there is an ability to maintain your vibe no matter what’s happening around you. Allowance is freedom. It’s not only about you allowing others to be as they are, but fully allowing yourself to be who you are, no matter what.  If someone can’t allow you to be you and they go into judgement about you, then cool, you get to allow them to do that.  When you are in allowance,  you allow others to be where they are in their life, and if there is judgment, then they are in judgment.  They aren’t wrong for judging you, it’s just where they are right now. Again, when you are in allowance of others to be in judgment of you, it’s so awesome!  You aren’t affected.  They get the opportunity to reflect on their judgment.  Everyone wins.  Every one heals something in themselves. In Health and Healing,